Ritual Ettiquette

As a general rule, before any ritual, it is helpful to ask about expectations, such as appropriate attire, arrival time, and any other relevant details.

Below are the general guidelines we follow and ask others to please follow when working with us or joining one of the rituals we organise. These are also a good set of guidelines for any public ritual you may take part in.

Respecting the Sacred Space

• Treat the circle as a sacred space.
• Once a circle is cast, do not leave without the ritual leader’s permission. This usually involves ‘cutting’ and closing a doorway behind you.
• Do not enter a sacred space with anyone you are in conflict with. It is better for one or both of you to step away than to disturb the harmony of the circle.
• Respect and follow the instructions of the ritual leader.
• Avoid creating conflict or unnecessary tension, such as reprimanding others for mistakes within the ritual.
• Leave worldly concerns outside. Be present and aware of your emotions.
• Never bring fear or doubt into a magical space.

Conduct During the Ritual

• Turn off mobile phones and any other electronic devices or distractions.
• Do not use electronic torches within a sacred space, unless its been agreed it is needed by the ritual leader. Especially be careful not dazzle people with your light.
• Learn your lines fully so that you can focus on the intent, rather than reading them.
• Be aware of the people around you.
• Face the appropriate direction when invoking or banishing elements, deities, or spirits.
• Do not have side conversations or talk over others speaking, except in informal moments like cakes and wine.

Movement and Positioning

• Always walk deosil (clockwise) unless instructed otherwise.
• When standing in a circle, alternate male and female where possible.
• When holding hands, place the right hand over the left (thumbs left) to maintain balanced energy flow.

Privacy and Confidentiality

• Only use magical names in private rituals. Do not use them outside private rituals without permission.
• Do not reveal sacred experiences shared in private rituals without consent.
• Do not 'out' participants or discuss who attended or who is part of a coven/group without their express permission.

Respect for Tools and the Environment

• Do not touch others' magical tools without permission.
• In natural spaces, respect nature and leave the area as you found it.
• Do not bring animals or children into a working space. There are exceptions for public rituals such as handfastings, but you should get consent of the person organising the ritual.

Substances and Cleanliness

• No smoking, vaping, or introducing unintended scents or substances. Scents often have attributions (e.g., tobacco, which is associated with Mars).
• Avoid intoxication if it may disrupt the ritual.
• Offer to help tidy up the ritual space afterward.

Inviting People

Never invite people who are not part of the group to a ritual, unless specifically agreed to by the organiser or it is a public ritual. This includes even if they are not part of the ritual but sit in another room or out of the way.

For public events, such as public rituals or open temples, it is still important to be aware of bringing non magical people into the space. Some events may be more public celebrations where it would be wonderful to have them as part of a community and wider celebration. Many, however, will involving energy workings where it might not be appropriate and either they or other attendees might feel uncomfortable. If in doubt, reach out to the organiser.

If you do invite someone who is new to things, we suggest sharing information about what to expect and these ritual ettiquete guidelines so they can be at ease and enjoy the experience.